That Kind Of Woman

It differs. Today I showered around 10am, then let it air dry in a bun until about 4pm. I blew it dry with a round brush, then set to work with a curling iron for a bit, sprayed it, then let it loose.

The best advice I can give for great hair is to blow dry it upside down with a large round brush. I use all Dove products. Also, give your hair a break sometimes. Just put it in a high, sloppy, giant bun. It’s great to see crazy hair as you pass reflective surfaces. 

Basically, embrace what your hair does, rebel against it occasionally. 

The Fall
Pillow Talk
Moonrise Kingdom
Seven Brides for Seven Brothers
The Sting
Revolver
Drive
Brief Interviews with Hideous Men
Beginners
Midnight in Paris
Sabrina
Take Me Away
The Graduate
Bronson
The Big Lebowski
Django Unchained
Catch Me If You Can

Just to name a few…

I have dated men who are my height. I have also found myself attracted to men who are shorter than myself. However that being said, a close friend of mine is now seeing a guy that is much shorter than she is, and she is a smaller woman herself. We talked about this and how she has absolutely no problem with their comparable sizes. She even mentioned that he has admittedly always been attracted to women who are more curvy than petite and thin.

We both agreed that if someone is uncomfortable with dating someone who is shorter or smaller, or uncomfortable with someone else dating them, that most of the time that reflects on the person’s own perception of their body and size.

Do I find men who are smaller stature extremely attractive? Honestly, it wasn’t until recently that I didn’t care how tall or short you may or may not be, no matter how many jokes I threw around “you must be at least this tall( indicates height close to mine) to ride this ride (waves hand over my being). I want someone who makes me feel like me. When we are together I am not concerned with how much my thighs touch, or the way my stomach is rounded out. I have learned that most of the time attraction that comes from aesthetics is, superficial and for the most part has lead me to meet really rude men.

Don’t get me wrong, attraction is a beautiful amazing thing. It’s intoxicating. But, looks fade. Skin isn’t always going to by soft and supple. If you are always wrapped up in the materialistic representation of yourself or the one you are with, well that is going to be a rough road. Find someone who makes you laugh, who treats you well. Who you can talk to, about anything.

Also, make sure that when you kiss them, it’s all you think about for the rest of the day, maybe the week. Height doesn’t matter. It doesn’t, it makes things easier sometimes, like kissing. But, you can always find a step. If your friends judge your choice because of superficial things like height? Well, then, inform them they they aren’t the ones dating the person, and if they want a certain type of man, then they should go find it for themselves.

If you yourself are uncomfortable, try and look at yourself, and ask yourself why you may feel the way you do, and how you can work past those things. Height shouldn’t matter.