June 13th, 2012
I am nineteen and I've never kissed a guy, dated a guy, or fallen in love. I feel like there's something wrong with me, but I also feel like I just haven't found the right guy yet. Is there any advice you could maybe give me?
Anonymous

I didn’t have my first kiss until I was 19. Trust me, you are young, there is more than enough time to get out there and have romantic experiences. Cultivate yourself, it will help you in the long run. 

  1. heyyoukid said: First kiss 18, first boyfriend at 20 & wouldn’t change a thing. Grateful for not giving myself away to someone until they deserved to get it.
  2. ihopeyoucontinue4ever said: me either! well, almost 19. didn’t have a serious relationship til i was 21. it was harder to understand when i was younger, but looking back, i’m grateful for sticking to my guns and npt compromising my ideals.
  3. catscomputerscardigans said: I’m in the exact same boat. Thanks for this lovely advice, Kat. :)
  4. gilmoure said: Yup, was 19 as well for first kiss. No worries.
  5. grimmeh said: Why is it that it feels like I’ve read this exact same message somewhere before…
  6. thestarryeyed said: aw. perfect advice. :)
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