I make them complete an obstacle course from their destination to mine, then take them for a spin and send them on their way. Like a car.
In all honesty, until a man can spend time with me inperson, and truly really like me, I don’t really think much of my internet interactions.
I met someone 2 years ago via tumblr and he and I dated for quite some time, and honestly the “vacation” romance that is forced to happen because of distance was unappealing and fed into an idealized relationship. I am all about the real. Day to day life is what makes a relationship, not romantic trips that define the romance.
If a man is interested, the first and foremost thing that should happen is friendship. Then, schedule a day to meet. So that it’s not all just flowery words over the internet.
I am no longer looking for somone to keep me occupied, I want love.