September 18th, 2012
Although I'm sure this has been asked before, what intrigues you in a companion? What kind of personality and looks would draw you to an individual?
I think you mean in a companion that is of the opposite sex? I may be projecting that though…
Physically: (most of which can be beaten by a great personality)
  • Height/Build. Instinctually, I love tall broad shoulders guys. Mostly because I am a tall, curvy woman. 
  • Hair/Facial hair: I don’t really care how you wear your hair/ facial hair as long as your maintain it and it suits your personality. Please no mutton chops, or chin straps.
  • Dress: I don’t want to meet you on a Friday night at the bar with you wearing basketball shorts and flip flops. Please, no more. Also, don’t traipse around the MET in White running shoes and khakis. 

Personality:

  • Humor: Don’t take yourself too seriously. Though, if you have the tall and brooding thing going on…. Mr. Darcy got the girl? RIght?
  • Intelligence: Now, I am not asking if you graduated with honors, or even if you went to college. Be able to stimulate my mind. 
  • Knowledge of Pop Culture: I make bad jokes about current topics, be able to fire a couple back in my direction. 
  • A strong sense of self: Know what you want. Go for it. I try to , why shouldn’t the guys I hang out with.
  • Honesty: Don’t jerk my chain. Don’t pretend to be something you aren’t to me. Also, let me know when I am being an over romantic fool, I will get over it after a little huffing and puffing. 

If this is regarding any companion then I have to say as long as you and I have stimulating conversations, things in common and a mutual love for animals I think we should get along just fine. Also to come to think of it, if you match up with the majority of the personality traits above, I bet we will get along just fine.

  1. njsavestheday said: Please, no more. Also, don’t traipse around the MET in White running shoes and khakis. ha, yes.
  2. wecangetthemforyouwholesale said: You should’ve just said… Bill Murray
  3. letterstophilemon said: So do we date now, or now?
  4. fratnip said: I did mean of the opposite sex; my apologies for the confusion!
  5. myegoandthoughts said: guys should never wear flip flops imo
  6. thewinterwind said: Quite interesting. All good traits
  7. thatkindofwoman posted this
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